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Retreating from FRUS-tration

November 10, 2013

Retreat Campsite

View from the retreat campsite.

Ahh…no worries, no cares…no ideas?

See, I’ve taken a writing retreat this week, got alone by myself, and after a day or two I was about to strangle a silent stubborn muse.  Until I felt the grip of my own angry fingers around my own scrawny neck.
Lucky for the muse (and me), I read Paul Schmid’s  post about creativity Saturday on Tara Lazar’s PiBoIdMo series.  Peter explains that most of his ideas come as a product of his intuition rather than mental activity.
The revelation was revealing. (Well…duh.)

I think his comments helped me see, for the first time, something I really knew all along.  He helped me identify my creative frustration: mental pressure and creative angst don’t generate creativity.  They force the lowest of notions, they foster the blandest of ideas.  They abandon spontaneity
Why, they deprive the spark of fodder.  But first they spit on the spark.

Speaking of spitting, I’m thinking now that creative frustration is well illustrated by that eternally bothered character we all know so well, Donald Duck.  When I can’t get a creative idea to form, I find myself flappin’ my beak, and with that raspy voice spittin’ and spurtin’ unintelligible curses Disney couldn’t risk saying plainly on the big screen.

And ‘flab-dabbit,’ he has three nephews working for him. No, not Hughey, Dewey, and Louie.

They are instead:

  • MUST-tration: This devious nephew says, “you HAVE to do this.  It’s why you took your retreat.  You’re spending all this time alone, when you should be working or worrying about something. It’s why you took those expensive writing courses, signed up for half a dozen writing challenges. You’ve spent time and money and effort–it better pay off–it must!”
  • RUSH-tration:  This  critical nephew says, “Your time is running out! You’re old, and you need an idea now.  Get with it, your social networks are waiting for your success.  You’ve got to get back to real life next week…you better hurry.  You don’t get moments like this often.  Look!  The clock is ticking, and you’re not getting younger! Haven’t you been at this at least a year? Get in a rush, buddy. Your personal dealines loom.”
  • CRUSH-tration: This down-in-the-mouth nephew says, “Damon…it’s just too much.  You can’t do this.  Look at all the successful writers who are kind enough to ‘friend’ you and let you in this writing community.  But you just aren’t gonna get this dream.  It’s pie in the sky.  Forget it.  Just forget it. Crush that dream.

Now that I know my enemies, I think I’ll ignore them.
I don’t have to generate ideas, I just will let them come, let them find me.
I’m in no hurry.  Time is what it is, and anyway, it seems any worthy idea rolls in on a slow, white cloud in a blue sky.
My writing dream is a God-given dream.  I was made to love stories, books, and kids. No measure of criticism should change that.

There.  And thanks, Paul.

Just me…and Y’all.

October 18, 2013

It’s just me…and All Y’all.

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I am so honored to be recently interviewed on Poetic Bloomings, a    gathering of poets I have come to love and admire. You can see my interview here.

The chance to express myself and tell others about my life has prompted me to think a lot in the last week about the ‘community’ writers share.

The camaraderie there is priceless, not to mention free access to our words and stories. I’ve learned so much, and what I’ve learned is much more valuable and meaningful because it comes from friendships.  Not just ‘virtual’ friendships. That’s the magic and beauty of places like Poetic Bloomings, 12×12, Writer’s Retreat, and critique groups.

Social media affords us the connection, but I think writer’s groups are different that most social media groups. In our groups, as writers, we are constantly striving to let ourselves out, to expose our imaginations, ideas, and dreams to one another–through our writing.

People on ordinary social media may comment, but we connect.
They may like, but we listen.
They may friend, but we relate.

We do it all around the passion that drives our community.
We know that to write is “to live outside of ourselves,” and that is wonderfully satisfying.
For both the writer…and the reader.

And the friend.

I hope you have writing communities of your own, in which you can learn, grow, and live.

Lighting Up Ideas

October 3, 2013
PiBoIdMo 2013

PiBoIdMo 2013

Anticipation. What a feeling! I’m ready to turn on the switch in November for Tara Lazar’s PiBoIdMo 2013...a month of picture book ideas that carries me into a frenzy of bright creativity, with some discouraging duds that will never really inhabit a pixel, some brilliant ideas that will flourish into a full-fun story.

Daily encouragement by illustrators, authors, and other participants brings light to the writer’s brain. M y last year’s 30 ideas have produced at least half a dozen picture books to date, and I’m still referring to that collection of new-book-idea notions.

Tara shines…it’s the fifth year for this event, and who knows what great stories will brighten kids eyes because of her passion for helping other writers.

Find out more at Tara Lazar’s site.

Cybils! Bloggers’ Best Kid Lit

September 20, 2013
Cybils

Children and Young Adult Bloggers’ Literary Awards

If you don’t know about Cybils, then check it out.  All year, since October 16th of 2012, there have been wonderful books and apps coming out for children and young adults that are worthy of recognition.  At Cybils–Children and Young Adult Bloggers’ Literary Awards–a host of judges who run blogs about kid-lit will review hundreds of nominations from the public to award well-deserved recognition for contributions to children’s literature.

You can follow at the Cybils website by subscription and receive emails that update you on the competition. I am following the process so that I can become more aware of the trends and far-reaching impact of works for children in today’s reading world.

Some of my writing friends and acquaintances are some of the judges this year, and I’ll especially be following their reviews and comments as the process continues. There’s Ed DeCaria (Think Kid Think), Renee LaTulippe (No Water River), Carol Munro (Just Write Words).

The categories in which awards are made are:

Book Apps
Easy Readers/Early Chapter Books
Fiction Picture Books
Graphic Novels
Elementary/Middle- Grade Nonfiction (formerly Non-Fiction Picture Books)
Young Adult Nonfiction
Poetry
Middle Grade Fiction
Young Adult Fiction
Elementary/Middle- Grade Speculative Fiction (formerly Fantasy and Science Fiction)
Young Adult Speculative Fiction (formerly Fantasy and Science Fiction)

Is Revision a Drag? Is Cleaning the Toilet a Party?

September 10, 2013

Is revision a drag to you? It can be to me.

And ESPECIALLY the timing. It seems I have to be in a rare mood to revise. I suppose because writing feels best when it’s fresh, spontaneous, or prompted. Going back to “that old thing” you wrote last month, last week, last year…it just isn’t really “creative.” It’s like changing your oil or rotating tires. It’s like cleaning the toilet. It’s MAINTENANCE. Ughhh.

SO, I’m really looking forward to REVIMO! in January, 2014. Writer Meg Miller offers us a new challenge, and one I’ll need right after the holidays. It will be a great chance to restart my writing craft! Check it out and sign up for a reminder at … http://megmillerwrites.blogspot.com/2013/08/revimo.html .

If revision is a drag for you–and especially if it’s not–drag yourself over to Meg’s blog and sign up for a reminder to participate come the new year! There’s nothing like having fellow writers cheer you on as you change the oil or clean the toilet. It helps makes it a new and fresh experience…and how shiny that story will be when you get through!

Just my 39 cents worth…

September 3, 2013
39cent

…the recipe and special ingredient…

My daughter flew in Thursday, and as usual is spending quality time with her Mawmaw (my mother). One of the things my daughters love when they go to Mawmaw’s house is to pull out the old recipe books–you know, the ones that were made by church ladies as fund-raisers. Tucked between those faded and worn covers and loose yellowed pages are other recipes, shared and collected in handwritten or typewritten index cards, or clipped from magazines or newspapers.

This was one of my favorites, but what caught my eye is that special ingredient:  1 pkg white silvered almonds (39c size).

That would be a hard-to-find ingredient.

It made me wonder, later, if this recipe reflects a handicap in my writing. For example, many of you know how I love rhyme. I write it all the time. (Sorry, couldn’t help myself.)  I now wonder if that’s because I grew up on Dr. Seuss. From the time I could read about a cat in the hat I’ve dreamed of writing tales like that. (Ooops.)  The sing-songiness of one of my recent stories was pointed out by a great published rhyme-writer of considerable fame.  I hadn’t realized the problem, of course (love for your own story is blind), but she gracefully pointed out that factor in my story.

I am probably writing to other 1960’s aspects that are dated, too.  Animals–the ones that talk–populate my stories. Is that a hold-over from my childhood? Are my characters locked in the cold-war time frame? Should I be suspicious of my picture-book settings (barnyards, backyards, alleys)?

This 39 cent discovery has made me begin to take a critical look at my work.  I’m certainly going to be more conscious of the childhood reader influence. This food-inspired moment of nostalgia has set up a caution in my craft.

It may not be a golden discovery.  At most, it’s probably silvered.  But who knows? A 39 cent package of almonds just might pay off, in time.  And that, dear reader, could be delicious.

Fingers Crossed (at least till August 15th)

August 9, 2013

Well…I attended that free webinar (I can hardly turn down free).

Dr. Mira Reisburg of the Picture Book Academy provided quite a discussion and great instruction along with Maya Christina Gonzalez and Mark Gregory Mitchell . Just being there live, being able to ask questions and make comments with the many other writers who were present, was enriching.

Now she is hosting a contest for scholarships to her e-course The Craft and Business of Writing Picture Books.

There are many other writers who are perhaps more in need than I am. But in the last three months (1) a broken tooth thanks to a wayward raccoon, (2) a dear pygmy goat who had to have a c-section, and (3) hefty repairs to my wife’s zero-turn mower have really minimized my financial flexibility to pursue any intensive writing career opportunities such as this Craft and Business of Writing Picture Books e-Course.

I would love for this course to fill that void for me this fall.  I’ve had to decline a 2nd ICL course, Katie Davis’ Video Idiot Boot Camp, and had just told myself after this recent free webinar that I couldn’t afford this either. So I’ll hold my breath until August 15th.

Cross your fingers for me (at least until August 15th).

A Learning Element Exposed…

July 31, 2013

There are lots of elements in the process of learning, but a fellow blogger has focused on one with a thoughtful comment about how and when and what we expose kids to during the learning process.

Guess what? The same element applies to the learning we as writers do.

Review his insights here, and think on how exposure affects your writing work:

http://jasonrkinsey.wordpress.com/2013/07/27/a-few-words-on-exposure/

 

Do you like a QUIET Book…?

July 28, 2013

Recently I read (and commented) on a discussion about a seeming trend, the apparent editors and agents appetites for ‘quirky’ and ‘funny’ picture books.
I have been wondering on it, and probably need to revisit that discussion. It was on the blog section at the Picture Book Academy website (here).
Today Julie Rowan Zoch shared her facebook comment for Hyewon Yum‘s picture book “This is Our House.” The review by the School Library Journal made me want to read this sweet, quiet book. I love books like this. And the review made me think again about the drive and the focus on ‘quirky’ and ‘funny’ that appears to permeate our craft.
Are there agents and editors who look for ‘quiet’ books, and books that related the beauty of normalcy and the satisfaction of simplicity?
I’m sure there are some that do. And maybe, in the whole context of picture-book publishing, this kind of book is, suddenly, ‘quirky’ and ‘unusual.’ Would love to hear others thoughts on this.
Is writing toward ‘quirky’ and ‘funny’ narrowing our idea of picture books?
Is the call for ‘quirky’ and ‘funny’ limiting your picture book craft?

Give your answers on this poll.

Elbow Rubs…

June 9, 2013

I recently mixed-it-up, rubbed elbows, shot the bull–whichever cliche’ you prefer–with fellow Arkansas SCBWI’ers at Little Rock, where we gathered together for three fantastic presenters last weekend.

Darcy Pattison began our conference Friday afternoon with a workshop intensive on novel revision. She shared some proven methods for determining if you story is dead or alive, whether you have scenes that mean something, and plot identity.

THEN she taught a method that blew me away–the “shrunken manuscript” method.  We gathered native herbs and various small reptiles, threw them into a big black cauldron under which we built a roaring fire.  We beat the drums,  and brandished our spears as we danced around in circles, and threw our manuscripts into the pot…

NAHHH!  Nothing that dramatic.  We had previously printed our manuscripts in the tiniest print legible, spread the pages out on the floor, and marked them up based on narrative arc, or plot strength, or character emotion. This was the most revealing and useful tool I’ve ever learned–it even works for picture books!

Friday night we enjoyed a meet and greet (and eat!) as various members made pitches to the guest editor and agent at the conference. We shared ideas, business cards, dreams, successes, and anxieties about our writing craft.

On Saturday Dawn Frederick of the Red Sofa Literary Agency shared priceless tips and do’s and don’ts about querying agents and publishers.  Later she talked about Red Sofa, and later shared all about building our social media presence.  The possibilities are endless! I am going to gradually expand my presence to other venues, and then try to focus on just those that I can manage at this time in my writing life.

Also on Saturday morning Karl Jones from Grosset & Dunlap/ Price Stern Sloan, an editor with  Penguin Book Division, carried us through character development.  That fun exercise resulted in considering an additional character who could  add a cluck or two to my picture book “Cock-a-Doodle-Too!” He kept us engaged in an afternoon session on pitching and communicating with acquisition editors, where we worked as groups to have a team member provide a live, on-stage book idea to the crowd. Karl also shared about Grosset & Dunlap’s acquisitions and recent developments in published works, giving us an idea of the latest market focus and directions.

Many thanks to our regional SCBWI conference coordinator Phyllis Hemann, Melanie Siegel, and others that helped and volunteered. we learned a lot, laughed a lot, and confirmed our fellow love for writing and illustrating kid-lit.

And icing on the cake?  I won a door-prize!  Gift certificate to Barnes & Noble!

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